Understanding the difference between a person's intent vs. their impact. Pretty self explanatory but still really makes you think. As vi

Something my close friends and family members always say about me is that I am "secretive" or "reserved". That's not to say I am a quiet person in any way, because I am not. But I know they mean I choose not to talk about certain things when I am asked for whatever reason. But I do have my reasons, and my 'silence' is never meant to be a personal reflection of how I feel about anyone. I thought I was being clever with the title, paying homage to F.U.B.U. (the Solange one). I

This is a question I ask myself often, especially when my family tells me "there's no way a pretty girl like you doesn't have a boyfriend." Trust me, I know. This question used to bother me so much to the point where I would avoid having small talk with my nosy aunts. Of course, they mean no harm in asking - evidently it's an inherent African aunt trait to posses. The only way I became comfortable in being asked this question is by prioritizing my life. When I stopped putting

Before I start, I'd like to say that I am proud of myself for thinking of this clever blog post title. I thought of it while I was cooking chicken tonight. I've been able to learn about myself so much having been in a relationship this past year. Though a lot of it was challenging, it was an eye opening experience. One of the things I learned in this relationship is that I am way too passive aggressive. I always tell myself that I don't argue because. - I channel the loving C